Writing
letters is an important part of communication. As your son or daughter goes
through school, you may have many occasions to write a letter. In advocating
for your child's needs, it is important to be able to write in a way that is
effective and to the point.
When you
communicate your thoughts, ideas, and concerns, you define your child's needs.
When you emphasize the positive aspects of your child's education, you develop
a good working relationship with the professionals in your child's life. When
you convey "what works" rather than spending time and energy on what
doesn't work, you become a stronger advocate for your child. When you need to
state concerns or problems in writing, do so in a factual, non-emotional, and
businesslike way; this will ultimately help you get the results you want for
your child.
A variety of sample letters are available on these pages that you may copy and change to fit your needs.
Note: The "cc:" at the bottom of the letter means you are sending
a copy of your letter to the people listed after the cc. If you write to the
Director of Special Education about a problem at your child's school, you
should copy the principal. If you write to the principal about a problem, you
should copy your child's teacher or other staff involved with your child. This
follows the "chain of command." It also lets people involved know
your concerns and that you are taking steps to resolve these concerns.
Always keep a copy of your letter for your own files.